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I am trying to be a good single dad And maybe its not fair that I have enough time to give anything else right now.. this is great advice but what if the guy that lost interest in you is your best friends cousin that lives with her and you see him all the time :( what can you do then :( i cant stop hanging out with her. You run this not the man! I know its hard because youve sacrificed everything for him. I thank you in advance for your input from a guys standpoint. so i agreed. Please told me your opinion what hes thinking. 4. if not he was just a dream seller honey :(. That he no longer wishes to be with you could be cause hes met someone, wants a break, is exhausted and stressed out with you and the relationship, hell looking for change/ uncontented or because you keep coming to beg him as though love is a one-way traffic., hence weakening his appreciation of YOU. It means hes not really interested. Enough his enough to all of you. Women want to be equal. Making him a part of your life will solve this problem. I had a guy friend confess his love for me, I told him I wasnt attracted to him in that way. An MBA with a passion for writing. / / (AHPND) , / / , : 24637448, 24637450 / : 5kg, 10kg, , , / / / , : 24682404, 24682405 / : 500g, 1kg. i got worse than my predicted scores. i am tryin to get him back with all my power but im not gonna lie its exhaustinghowever i do feel that he is worth it. And while there's no "right" way to deal with rejection,there are a few wrong ones that can not only damage your emotions but put you on bad terms with the person who rejected you. But he hasnt spoke a word to me since and i feel like lately am the one doing all the contact :/ I think having lost your parents, you latched onto him, he was the first guy for you and now you cant let go. Now its at the point where he doesnt say much to me if he does hes always nice and sweet but its just small talk. I guess I usually initiate the texts, but he would rather talk on the phone. Hi Betty, this really upset him. Give yourself a little time to heal from the rejection, and with a little effort on your part, you can continue talking to him as if nothing ever happened. Whenever his family asked about me, he told me that Im busy, but not letting them know about our breakup. In a basketball game not to sound kreepy or anything but we counted how many times he looked at me.. 25 time. I dont know what to do I thought he was the one the connection was so strong ! I wasnt a challenge, but how was I supposed to know? im in a dilemma .. i dont want to push him away. a month or two passes and im a senior and because he failed a year in earlier years he was a junior. Ok so there was this guy I dated in high school (15 years ago) and we have recently started talking again. You cant harp on the past, but what you can do is make better choices in the future. At least Im out of it, I really was saved! He will even want to forget you in order to make you miss him. Because your brain needs to be active, you might run across a scene or a post that reminds you of him. 4. 6. Shruti . We got along great and really hit off (this is all over text message of course) He was pretty persistent, constantly texting me for about a week. So this guy tells all his frat brothers and a few of my sisters that he really likes me and has never met a girl like me before. Let him work on your schedule. If you like a guy you let him know , act normal and be yourself NO GAMES .NO MINIPULATION!! You broke his heart. what do i do? Most people when they're rejected after all do not have to see the person that rejected them day in, day out. Talk it out: If you have a good relationship with the guy, it might be useful to talk to him and explain why he needs to stop pursuing you. PLEASE HELP!!! How do I get over this? I had a guy that pursued me hard for two months, then pulled back, said he didnt know if we should keep hanging out, but he really wanted to keep talking to me at least as friends until he figured his stuff out. So if you turn him down several times, he might think youre not into him or that youre out of his league. But if you are sure that is not the case, then there is an easy way to resolve the hes not chasing me anymore, what do I do now? dilemma. Then, when I Thought about it i Started to like him too. The time passed by 5 months now, If he is hiding anything at all from you then clearly this situation is now a joke. he is one of the most amazing people around. Convince him to erase his tattoo(its crucial for me). We use cookies to make wikiHow great. #1. i have another number im using it also. If he doesnt, then he is inconsequential. And now even after one month of no contact from me he doesnt remember to call me and instead when i called him today he just said that he was busy. If you are someone who has recently come out of a serious relationship, he may even have greater cause to think that you are only using him to get over your ex. Please be honest, Do you guys think he is thinking about me, like im thinking about him? hes speaking to two other girls. All the couple type things. No, he never spends time with me. MY PAST! Everyone resents being deliberately manipulated. It was nothing personal against the girl I just had a lot going on and I put off responding until I had a free moment and that free moment never came. He is also the first man I have ever been with. Invite him to hang out with you casually like going to a movie or hanging out with a group of mutual friends. He Has a Poor View of Women. Your Value in his eyes will start going down, so does your level of attractiveness to him. When you cut the cord with a guy you MUST be prepared to never heard from him again. Try texting something like, Hey. First, you admit no wrong, however the lines and tones of your message says otherwise. Well i was living out of town when this guy who used to coach my cousins baseball team added me on fb. Then the guy that my best friend liked moved about 15mins away and since we were young, we never saw him. In the end, that person may actually be doing you a favor so you can find someone better suited to you, Bette Levy Alkazian,a psychotherapist, told INSIDER. i texted him, no response, so i sent him another text telling him i was leaving and his key was on the mantle, still no response, well i left we spoke the next day and decided to forgive him and start over, not 3 days later he does the same thing again :( again we speak decide that everything moved to fast and decided to start over again, now obvious its different, he doesnt ignore me, but i dont see him as often as i like when i do see him its heaven (no intamacy) just having fun he tells me all the time how much he loves me but im so confused as to how you love someone so much you put no effort into making it work so today i sent him a text telling him what i hated and what i needed to continue with our relationship and somekind of proof that he is serious, he asked me what kind of proof, obviously my response was i shouldnt have to tell you, and that was the last i heard from him should i cut my losses or wait it out to see if he comes around????? My exboyfriend and i dated for six months, he cheated on me and always came back after leaving. Of course, you don't have to tell him that if you don't want him to use a method that will attract . He did say that he needs time to feel that he misses me, as hes not had the chance to feel that for a while and it makes him feel like theres something missing in the relationship. Last weekend we were at the same party and got along great, and at some point he started kissing me. I've been in 3 relationships, and two of them were with guys I'd initially rejected after 1-2 dates, and the third relationship was with someone who THOUGHT I wasn't into him at first. Later we had this argument where I told him that we werent serious because we had only been talking for two weeks then he said Fine were not talking anymore!. i ignored his reason and the moment i confronted him he asked me to be his girlfriend. i was quiet the whole night. i had feelings for him for a while. me thinking this over, i messaged him a huge text explaining that i could not go through being friends with him due to it being weird. I asked him if he would be interested in hanging out and he said yeah he will see what hes doing that weekend, and i said he should message me and he said he will. My ex and I have been dating for almost 2 years and he decided that we cant continue, its been almost 3 months since that and after all the arguements and cutting off he decided its better if we be friends. ( ) (Hmall) ' ' 3.3 250 7 . You probably have gone through this before, or heard it from one of your friends. love yourself and take care of it, and turn yourself into someone you would miss. But a good rule of thumb is to wait at least two weeks, or until you start feeling more comfortable with the idea of talking to him again. But 4 weeks ago we broke up i didnt know why, he was desperate changing pictures on BBM and he removed my name so i asked him why, like u removed our picture already and now my name, later on what? Try to keep your conversations simple at first. I dont know if he truly wants me or still wants her. It was absolutely amazing seeing him after all these years. What should I do? That's sign number one for any guy to know he "got" you. As a grown woman, you are free to choose any type of relationship you want. Ive been there and the gut feeling is usually accurate even when theres no clear red flag. Could it be you rejected him because you were afraid or nervous? I kinda have the same thing and I dont know what to do. "You are a perfect match for someone out there, just not that person.". heres the thing and your all gonna say time to move on blah blah blah but please dont please help me figure out how to get him back.i have caught him on a few dating websites..chattin to lots of girls but none have responded to him (cant help but feel a little bit happy by that) i wondered if he would be missin me and thinkin about me and if he has joined these sites as a way to pass the time and to get some attention??? Since i didnt want to fight because of his illogical story I let it slide again. Never accept bad behavior. Yes hes text a few times and I have as well. The other question to answer is, Why is he doing this?. facebook whatsapp everything maybe he will miss me someday ? Then you will have the urge to reach out and go back down the rabbit hole. he hated it. i told him i had to go to the mall to buy myself something. 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